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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2019 21:50:55 GMT
Do some take it all too seriously? And if so, is because it's an extension of their ego?
When I was younger I was pretty committed. Really enthusiastic. I did take it pretty seriously. But - and it's a big But - apart from one experience with trying to help a mate, there wasn't anything of a negative nature to it. Forums didn't exist of course then of course. You just did you're own thing and that was it. Maybe share your interest with a mate.
Different these days with social media. There's both positive and negative aspects. On the positive side you can get help from others with knowledge greater than your own. Possibility of snapping up a bargain from someone, as I did with my Audioromy amp recently. Form friendships with like-minded individuals. Equally on the negative side, you can have being somewhat less than free to express opinions. Encountering the willy-waver individual. Individuals that take a jaundiced view of you when you say something they don't like. It can be a queer old world out there in forum land. I suppose one simply has to take the positive aspects which suits you best and just avoid the negative ones as best you can.
One sort of interesting aspect (can be) is the nature of postings of some individuals. I suppose all human life is here would cover it. And it would be somewhat boring if everyone posted in the same way, I suppose. It's here though that some can seem to take it all oh so very seriously. Sometimes I do fast forward them on 20 years and wonder if they might still be posting in the same fashion. Hopefully not.
But enough of my waffle.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2019 22:16:17 GMT
Yes, some people take it far too seriously in my opinion. Take the eBay add Macca linked to. A basic CD player and amp and about 10k of tat that makes it all sound better.
Surely it would have been better to spend the money where it really counts?
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Post by macca on Aug 25, 2019 10:17:51 GMT
maybe it's not the people who take it seriously who are the problem, but the people who have a problem with others taking it seriously?
As soon as I see anyone using the word 'egos' I start rolling my eyes. It's blokes talking about hi-fi, not planning to invade Poland for Lebensraum. Sorry but it's all too fucking 'precious' for me.
I've never taken anything seriously in my life. On the other hand if I'm not happy with how my music sounds that does affect my mood and happiness. So it is quite important to me. Doesn't help that I'm really fussy about how it sounds.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2019 10:32:38 GMT
Well, it's easy enough to ignore/duck the issue. Still there, though.
Male ego. It shines through or can do. Happens with other interests. Hi-Fi's no different. Never going to be immune from it.
For some, it can be an issue. For others not. Just depends on your viewpoint and how accommodating you want to be.
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Post by macca on Aug 25, 2019 10:40:40 GMT
Could we not say that if one has a problem with someone else's 'ego' then that is in fact one's own ego at work?
I don't have any problem with people who are boastful about their hifi or whatever it is. They add a bit of colour to life and forums. I don't see it as an 'issue' at all. People being nasty about other people, whether it is outright attacks or (more usually) constant 'passive-aggressive' whining about it - or them, that does my tits in.
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Post by Bigman80 on Aug 25, 2019 10:41:25 GMT
I don’t really analyse it tbh. All I really know is that sound can be a real source of pleasure (music) and pain (crowds, TV adverts, children, traffic etc).
I also love things that are well made and pleasingly designed, This tends to lead me towards stuff I find attractive sonically and visually.
If seeking to fulfil those desires serves some ego driven motive, I don’t know or really care. I just like the involvement I have with hifi bits. That includes using, buying, refurbish and talking about hifi.
If someone wants to read anything deeper into it, I do t really care because it wouldn’t change me seeking pleasure.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2019 11:17:58 GMT
Well, as usual, opinions vary.
It doesn't have to be a problem. I wasn't really viewing it in terms of it being a problem. I was viewing it in observational terms. For some, though, it is. Slightly off at a tangent, I never got Mr Hucker's money "thing" - and there was plenty of postings from him on the subject - just didn't get it at all. I didn't have any desire to twist about it though. It just went in one eye and out the other.
Generally, it's a case of live and let live. Unless the truth of a matter becomes an issue. And whether that's seen as "passive aggressive behaviour" - is down to the individual.
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