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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 10:53:56 GMT
got no time for any of em except the wife and me 2 sons.
haven't spoke to my brother for 15 years and never will
not spoke to my mum for 5 years...she's a moody bitch.
tbh i got no time for anybody nowadays..i like to live like a hermit..nobody is welcome here except me lads mates.. i dont like people coming in my house or on my land. if the wife has friends over i want them out asap. in the past one of the wife's friends try to tell me what to do in my own house when we lived in the uk..she was met with fury from me..SHE'S FORBIDDEN to step foot in this house after that malarky..
my friends are kept at arms length. non are welcome here...if any turn up i tell em i'm busy
so do hate or love your family?
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Post by macca on Jul 26, 2018 11:20:28 GMT
Mine are fine in small doses.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 11:29:27 GMT
alright mate
wifes mum does me fekin head in..she talks non stop..gives a running commentary of everything she's doing...walking to the car she describes her steps..she's got dementia now and 10 times worse...
i try to avoid her at all costs...plus she dont realise i dont speak swedish anymore...
lucky the silly cow lives 80 miles away so we dont see her much..
wife's sister is the same...NON STOP FEKIN TALKING.at least she's still got all marbles and speaks english ..on and on and on..again i do me best to avoid the loony
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Post by macca on Jul 26, 2018 12:00:49 GMT
My mother could talk for England. Once she's exhausted every topic she starts again at the beginning.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 12:06:27 GMT
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Post by Bigman80 on Jul 26, 2018 12:23:31 GMT
I don’t tend to mix much. I speak to my brother and sister a couple of times a year, but only because they make the effort. I don’t mix with my wife’s family. I have a coupe of hifi mates I keep in touch with and used to see maybe once a month when I was in the U.K. that’s it. I don’t really like mixing with neighbours because I just want privacy at home.
My wife is the complete opposite. She will strike up a conversation with strangers wherever she is. She seems to like social interaction as much as I hate it.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 13:40:47 GMT
firkham hall i say
hermit living is the best way..you cant get hurt that way..too many folk out there will inflict pain on you if they can gain something..best not give the fekers a chance
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Post by macca on Jul 26, 2018 14:49:09 GMT
I'm okay, I've got nothing that anyone else wants.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 14:54:50 GMT
good place to be
i lost everything in 2002 to my then best mate..he was fucking my ex wife..almost cost me my life and a prison sentence
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Post by Bigman80 on Jul 26, 2018 15:03:24 GMT
That sort of thing would be enough to wreck some people. You’ve come through it stronger and happier. I don’t feel like I need to avoid people for any reason. I just can’t be bothered with them.
Unless I have a reason to speak to people face to face, I just won’t bother. Lots of people have called me selfish, but to me it’s only natural to put yourself first. I certainly feel no desire to change just to please others.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 15:08:13 GMT
you have to be selfish mate..otherwise people will Sh#t on you..i have had my share of folk shitting on me..wont happen again i garantee you that.
hermit living then nothing can ever happen.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 15:20:39 GMT
My parents have been dead for many years. I got on fine with them except for a couple of years when I was a moody teenager and used to annoy my father by mooching around the place. I moved away from home at 19, and that solved the problem. I get on well with my three siblings and always have done.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 15:21:58 GMT
I'm okay, I've got nothing that anyone else wants. You say that, but I expect people would be queuing round the block if they knew you had an NVA preamp. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 15:23:08 GMT
or running the other way |
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Post by macca on Jul 26, 2018 17:02:18 GMT
I'm okay, I've got nothing that anyone else wants. You say that, but I expect people would be queuing round the block if they knew you had an NVA preamp. I do have to fight off the chicks with a pointy stick but they are not after me hi-fi.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 17:58:20 GMT
I'm a bit of an introvert and loner. Don't belong to any clique. Always did prefer doing things on my own. Been very much the same since my early teens.
Just have a few ''Hi-Fi'' acquaintances that I chat with every now and then. That's all I need.
Nah, I don't do friends!
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Post by Bigman80 on Jul 26, 2018 19:01:04 GMT
I'm a bit of an introvert and loner. Don't belong to any clique. Always did prefer doing things on my own. Been very much the same since my early teens. Just have a few ''Hi-Fi'' acquaintances that I chat with every now and then. That's all I need. Nah, I don't do friends! S. The one I never really got was having colleagues as friends. Nothing worse than having to spend all day with people then meeting up again afterwards. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2018 20:02:33 GMT
Got a brother I do not speak to, he married a Nazi Brunhilde; crazy intellectual Doctor of Sociology, the stupid cow talks the biggest load of nonsense non stop.
He is a life long weed addict, never worked a day in his life, cant get a word of sense out of him, all gibberish.
Sister is Bats, so I avoid her like the plague, the violent psycho bitch.
Otherwise have plenty friends, have been friends with some of them for over 50 years.
The uncles, aunts, cousins, my niece we get along great.
My Mom is 90, she is no longer able to walk, I take care of her, she is an absolute pleasure to be with, still as sharp as a razor she does not miss a thing.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 27, 2018 11:41:46 GMT
first rule in life.
DONT TRUST ANYBODY ..keep yaslef to yaself...be wary of folk..most will hurt you i garantee you that..i don't trust my own mother..
you're children have to be immune from you're hatred of the human race though..i will never ever fall out with either..i will ofc never harm them..in fact the opposite..
hate is a strong word..but i do hate most people i meet..not all but most..firstly i never trust anyone i meet..
that why i cant get destroyed again aye?
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